Relationships

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Unveiling Erotic Intelligence: Nurturing Desire and Intimacy in Committed Relationships

In the realm of committed relationships, desire and intimacy are intricate territories that require careful navigation. Exploring the concept of “erotic intelligence,” we uncover the secrets of nurturing passion and connection. Delve into the art of cultivating a vibrant and fulfilling sexual bond, unlocking pathways to enduring love. Embracing the Complexity of Desire Desire, an …

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Navigating Relationship Challenges: Embracing Harmony and Understanding Gottman’s Four Horsemen of Divorce

Relationships can be a magnificent journey, weaving together moments of joy and growth. Yet, in this intricate dance, it’s essential to be aware of the potential stumbling blocks that can hinder our path to harmony.  Enter Dr. John Gottman and his wife, Dr. Julie Gottman, renowned psychologists and researchers who dedicated their lives to unraveling …

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The Benefits of Planned Sex

Has sex with your partner become less spontaneous?  Sometimes there’s this idea that when spontaneous sex stops, so do romance, passion, and eroticism. But that doesn’t have to be the case! While a lack of spontaneous sex can lead to a dip in that passion if left alone, spontaneity isn’t the only way to grow …

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6 Tips for Introducing Sex Toys to a Partner

Adding sex toys to partnered sex can increase pleasure, build connection, and provide fun.  You may have used toys on your own before but wonder how to introduce sex toys to a partner. It can seem intimidating to bring sex toys into the bedroom when having partnered sex, but it doesn’t have to be!  Why …

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Defining What “Good” Sex Means to You

Is it sex that lasts a long time? Sex that gives you a mind-blowing orgasm? Sex that’s spontaneous, sex that’s kinkier, or steamier than usual? Does it include toys? Does it include dirty talk? Is there foreplay involved? Is it part of a larger, flirty game between you and your partner, or is it just …

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5 Tips for Starting a Regular Relationship Check In

All relationships require communication to survive. When communication is respected and open in a relationship, especially a romantic one, it builds safety and trust. Learning how to communicate with your partner can give you an even stronger foundation for your relationship moving forward. Knowing that you can trust each other to be open and honest …

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8 Signs It’s Time to See a Couples Therapist

Did you know that couples spend, on average, 6 years being unhappy before seeking help from a couples therapist?  Six years is a long time to be unhappy. Life is too short to spend so much time unhappy, especially in romantic relationships. Being disappointed in your relationship can lead to feelings of depression or anxiety, …

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What to Do When You Want Sex, and Your Partner Doesn’t

Have you ever tried to initiate sex, but your partner wasn’t interested? It can be a strange feeling to deal with, especially if it’s a topic you feel you can’t talk about.  There are a lot of ideas out there about what a “normal” sex life is, and it can be a source of shame …

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